Meet Elizabeth
Monday, June 30th, 2008By Blake Gilmore
My last two weeks have largely consisted of introductions. From greeting staff members throughout the building to meeting the other (amazingly ambitious) interns, my memory often fails me in recalling names- and foreign pronunciations make it more difficult! There is one name I haven’t had trouble with, however: Elizabeth. It’s an easy name to recall, not only because it’s easy to say, but because it belongs to such a dynamic human being.
As I anxiously waited to be assigned someone to teach in my first English class, I heard a voice resonating across the room. “Ey, what’s your name? You new? I’m Elizabeth,” summoned a woman sitting at a desk, her gold outfit contrasting with her rich ebony skin. She motioned for me to sit, eagerly informing me she left Liberia four years ago with her daughter. “I was married to king of village,” she affirmed, mouth running like a cheetah’s, “He have seven otha’ wives, but I no care. I am the first wife, so I get food first!” Though I don’t catch everything she says, it’s impossible not to be engaged in her narrative. In a somewhat awkward gesture, she then lifted up her shirt and pulled a beautiful necklace from beneath her belly. Staring adoringly at the rainbow assortment of beads on a string, she told me this is what her husband gave her when he proposed.
Luckily, noting Elizabeth and my quick companionship, the director of the English tutoring classes paired us together. Elizabeth had already answered the daily questions while the other clients were still copying from the chalkboard. “Today is Monday,” she exclaimed as I looked over her work, “Today is sunny!” She danced around in her chair, clearly proud of her correct answers. She struggled as we read the Level 2 Day 5 passage, continually mispronouncing passeenyahs (passengers) and pardame (paramedics). Instead of getting frustrated when I correct her, however, she lets out an infectious laugh.
While other students filed out immediately after the bell, Elizabeth stayed to tell me why she left Liberia. “The poor men no like the rich men. There was big fight over dahn-mo,” she stated. Dahn-mo? My curiosity piqued, I researched recent Liberian conflicts at home. Her comments about “danh-mo” suddenly made sense, as Liberia’s former president was involved in the illegal diamond trade. The country’s second war, a conflict between various rebel groups and the Liberian government, surged from 1999-2003. Thousands of Liberians narrowly escaped the volatility engulfing their nation.
Elizabeth’s optimism in spite of all she’s been through inspires me. In fact, I might create a photo-documentary share her story! I will certainly never forget her.